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You say: ‘I’m fine.’ While deep down you know you’re really not.

You notice what’s going on again, before it overwhelms you.

However hard you try, at home or at work, you’re never quite good enough.

You feel like enough, without having to prove it.

You say yes to one more task, one more favour. Because saying no feels weak. Or proves you can’t handle it.

You say no, and it feels okay.

You don’t ask for help, because that feels like failing.

You ask for help, and it feels like strength.

You’re surviving.

You’re living again.

You can’t remember who you are.

Your sense of self-worth is restored, and you dare to say what you actually need or want.

One-month path

Fits you if you’re fairly clear on where it goes wrong, and don’t want to wait for it to pass on its own. You go through the five steps focused on that one point, within a month.

100 days

Fits you if the pattern shows up in more than one place, or if you want to address not just this one moment, but the system behind it. You go through the five steps more broadly, with time to let what you learn actually settle in.

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